How to Style Hair Bows for Every Age: Baby to Big Kid
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A complete guide by age group, from one mama to another.
There’s something special about a little one in a hair bow. Whether it’s your baby’s first photo or your big girl’s school performance, bows add that sweet touch that makes the moment just a little more memorable.
As a mom who started making bows for my own daughter, I’ve learned a thing or two about what works at every age. This guide is here to help you style your child’s bows with confidence—whether you’re just starting your collection or growing it alongside your growing girl.
Let’s walk through it together, age by age.
0–12 Months: The Baby Phase
This stage is all about comfort. At this age, babies are still growing into their features, so soft, stretchy headbands are your best friend. They’re gentle on delicate skin and won’t leave marks.
What works best:
— Soft nylon headbands
— Mini bows (usually around 2 inches)
— Lightweight fabrics and simple patterns
Styling tip: Keep it simple and soft. A neutral bow or a pastel tone pairs perfectly with those cozy sleepers or milestone outfits. I loved coordinating my daughter’s bows with her monthly photo outfits—it made those memories even sweeter.
1–2 Years: The Toddler Stage
As their hair starts to fill in, you’ll notice clips become more practical—though many toddlers still do best with headbands, especially during busy mornings.
What works best:
— Soft headbands or small alligator clips with no-slip grips
— Medium-sized bows (around 3–4 inches)
— Seasonal prints or fun patterns
Styling tip: Try bows with pigtails or a small ponytail on top. If your little one is anything like mine, she’ll start wanting to pick her own bow—so don’t be surprised if she grabs the glitter one for a grocery run.
3–5 Years: The Preschool Phase
This is when bow styling gets fun. Preschoolers are full of personality, and their hairstyles often start matching that energy. Alligator clip bows become the go-to here.
What works best:
— Clip-in bows (medium to large)
— Layered or patterned bows
— Character or holiday-themed designs
Styling tip: Half-up hairstyles, braided pigtails, or side ponies all look adorable with a well-placed bow. Don’t be afraid to go a little bigger—they can handle it. This is also a great time to let them experiment with choosing their own combinations.
6–8 Years: The Big Kid Phase
At this age, girls often love bold, expressive styles. Oversized bows, sparkles, and bright colors really shine here—especially if they’re involved in dance, cheer, or school events.
What works best:
— Jumbo bows (5 inches or more)
— Glitter, metallics, or custom monogram styles
— Cheer bows with ribbon tails
Styling tip: High ponytails with a bold bow are a classic at this stage. If she’s feeling independent, let her place the bow herself. This is the age where style becomes self-expression, and it’s fun to watch that grow.
A Few Extra Tips I’ve Picked Up Along the Way
— I organize bows by size and color—it makes mornings faster and less chaotic.
— Rotating bows by season helps keep the collection fresh without going overboard.
— Coordinating bows for siblings is adorable in photos—same color, different styles works great.
— Store bows flat or hang them up to keep them from getting squished.
There’s a bow for every age, and a story behind every one. Whether it’s your baby’s first headband or your big girl’s favorite sparkly statement piece, each bow holds a memory.
That’s why I started making bows in the first place—for my daughter, for those memories, and now for other moms like you.
If you're looking for the perfect bow to match your little one’s stage, take a peek at our latest styles at Lynlee Blair’s Bows. Every piece is made with love, by a mom who gets it.
